Our Story
What started as a workplace introduction quickly grew into a connection that would become something much more meaningful.
Over the past ten years, Chelsey & Jake have built a life together filled with travel, adventure, and a shared love of exploring... Whether discovering somewhere new or taking on a challenge, we’ve always enjoyed experiencing the world side by side.
On March 17, 2025, Jake proposed during a hike at Cathedral Rock in Sedona, Arizona—one of Chelsey’s favorite places. Surrounded by stunning red rock views and an unforgettable moment, she happily said yes.
Now we’re excited to begin our next chapter together and celebrate with our closest friends & family in a way that reflects our love of adventure and exploring the world.
Wedding Day Details
The Ceremony & Celebration
We are so happy to say ‘I do’ in the beautiful surroundings of Bad Lauterberg.
After the ceremony, we will celebrate together with dinner, drinks, and dancing.
We can’t wait to spend this special evening with you.
Travel & Accommodation
To make your stay in Bad Lauterberg as comfortable as possible, we have put together a few accommodation recommendations nearby. Feel free to choose the option that suits you best.
* Use Hotel block booking code: Crumley2026
Getting Around
We've curated a list of recommendations to aid you in your travels.
Apps to download:
Additional Information
Germany’s rail system is one of the easiest ways to travel. Here are a few tips:
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Book trains early for better prices.
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Regional trains are great for short distances.
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Platforms and tracks sometimes change and Trains are not always on time—always check the station screens and show up early.
Cash & Payments
Germany still relies more on cash than the United States. Helpful tips:
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Carry some euros for small purchases.
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Be prepared to pay form public bathrooms/tip bathroom attendants – this keeps public bathrooms much tidier than an U.S. bathroom. I promise.
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Some restaurants, cafés, or taxis may not accept credit cards.
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ATMs are widely available in cities and train stations.
Tipping/Service Culture
Tipping is appreciated but different than in the U.S.
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Restaurants: 3 – 10%
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Taxis: round up the fare
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Bars: round to the nearest euro
Usually you tell the server the total amount when paying, rather than leaving cash on the table.
No Free Water/Refills: Water is not automatically served, and free refills do not exist. You will pay for every bottle ordered.
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"Wasser" = Sparkling: If you just order "Wasser," you will likely get sparkling water (mit Gas). For non-carbonated, ask for stilles Wasser or Wasser ohne Gas.
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Tap Water (Leitungswasser): While 100% safe to drink, it is not common to ask for tap water at restaurants.
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If you do, you may be denied or get a small, paid glass.
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Tap water in Germany is excellent. The lack of free water is a business model—restaurants make revenue from bottled water and beverages.
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Ordering Phrase: Say "Ein stilles Wasser, bitte" (A still water, please) for non-carbonated, or "Ein Wasser mit Gas, bitte" for sparkling.
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Ice is Rare: Water is usually served at room temperature or slightly chilled, not with ice, unless requested.
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Service Tempo: Service is not designed for speed; you are expected to enjoy your meal, not rush. Waiters will not typically check on you constantly.
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Ordering: Waiters will likely wait until you are ready to order everything (drinks and food) at once.
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German waiters will not banter with the guests; when they come to you, it's ordering time. Expect a short prompt sentence.
Electrical Outlets
Germany uses Type C and Type F plugs. Guests coming from the U.S. should bring:
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European plug adapter
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Voltage converters are usually not needed for phones/laptops.
Quiet Hours
Germany has strong cultural norms around quiet hours.
Typical quiet times:
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10:00 PM – 6:00 AM
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12:00 PM - 3:00 PM
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Sunday is often considered a quiet day
Guests should avoid loud music or noise in residential areas during these times.
Grocery Stores Close Early
Many stores close earlier than Americans expect.
Typical hours:
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8:00 AM – 8:00 PM
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Many places closed on Sundays
Plan accordingly for snacks or supplies.
Public Transportation Etiquette
Common customs:
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Stand on the right side of escalators
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Let passengers exit trains first
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Keep voices relatively quiet on public transport
Language
Many Germans speak English very well, especially in tourism areas.
Helpful phrases guests might use:
English / German
Hello / Hallo
Thank you / Danke
Please / Bitte
Excuse me / Entschuldigung
Do you speak English? / Sprechen Sie Englisch?
September Weather
For a September wedding in the Harz region:
Typical weather:
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55–70°F (13–21°C)
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Cool evenings
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Occasional rain
Guests should bring:
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Light jacket
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Comfortable walking shoes
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Umbrella
Local Transportation Tip
In smaller towns:
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Taxis may require calling ahead (and can be expensive)
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Rideshare options are limited
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Walking and buses are common
Things to Try While in Germany:
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Local beer halls
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Bakeries (German bread is amazing)
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Castles and forest hikes in the Harz Mountains
Accommodation & Travel
We’re so happy that you’re considering traveling to celebrate with us in Bad Lauterberg. Here are some options to help you plan your stay. Please book by June 15th, 2026.
* Please use Hotel block booking code for either location: Crumley2026